Aural Sects

Funny things

baileythebookworm:

You know, “nice guys” are amusing. When “nice guys” wonder aloud why they’re single and feel so sad about their lives because they’re so fucking nice and ladies only want to date assholes, I sit there and giggle and chuckle and laugh until I can’t breathe. Because fuck you, nice guy - you are an asshole.

You find me any single person who isn’t a bitter jackass and ask them why they’re single, and I guarantee you the answer will not be, “Because I’m so nice and the people I’m interested in only want to date big ol’ meanies.” 

The myth that women only want to date jerks is so rooted in sexism and making women’s lives all about performing for heterosexual males is amazingly pervasive. I have never in my life met a person who’s said, “Gosh, my partner is super great. I’m thinking about dumping them for this complete jackass.” 

If you can’t find a date, nice guy, it’s not because women want to date jerks. It’s because they don’t.

ALL THIS